"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf" Jon Kabat-Zinn

About the courses

What we offer

Our Mindfulness courses are based on the teachings of Jon Kabat-Zinn (author of Full Catastrophe Living) at the University of Massachusettes Medical Centre and the Mindfulness-based Cognitive Therapy courses developed by Segal, Williams and Teasdale at the University of Bangor where Jean, the course facilitator has completed her studies.

The aims of our courses are to facilitate students with the learning of skills and techniques in Mindfulness which will enhance their ability to remain in the here and now. To be better able to deal with life's events and experiences with a greater ability to respond in a way which is beneficial to them rather than one which causes undue stress and illness and disharmony. For them to experience a richness and perspective which may have been formerly impaired.

The courses provide an opportunity to share experiences and to learn from those of others without the pressure to disclose any information unwillingly. We guide you through mindfulness exercises and practices offering individuals time to feedback and examine their experiences so enhancing the depth of their learning.

Students not only participate in the group sessions but also practice the techniques shared on a daily basis in order to further their skills and maximise the benefits, this is an essential part of the course. 

AN INTRODUCTION TO MINDFULNESS EVENING :-

These offer a flavour of the 8 week course providing the opportunity for students to be confident that Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction is a life skill they wish to learn and that it is presented in a way which is acceptable to them.

8 WEEK MINDFULNESS BASED STRESS REDUCTION COURSE:-

Session 1: An introduction to Mindfulness

Session2: How to handle stress

Session3: The Power of being present: living all your moments

Session 4: Learning about our patterns of reactivity to stress

Session 5: Using mindfulness to respond to stress

Session 5: (a): Optional Silent practice session depending on room availability

Session 6: Stressful communications and interpersonal mindfulness

Session7: Life style choices: How can I best take care of myself?

Session8: Keeping your mindfulness alive.

We back up the information shared at the course meetings with a workbook and CD's.

The courses involve up to 15 students depending on the venue, where we participate in discussion, meditation practices, information sharing, and some gentle movement and stretching exercises. Mostly this is done sitting together on chairs or lying on the floor. We will check with you on booking regarding any difficulties you may have in an effort to meet your needs (e.g. visual or hearing impairment).

DAY OF MINDFUL SILENCE:-

An experiential day lead by Jean and Sonia where you have the opportunity to stay silent and set aside the distractions of the many daily activities we have including interacting with others. You will be led through meditations and practices which facilitate the opportunity for you to become more in touch with your true self. You are freed from the need to make conversation or to assume a particular personality. The silence allows you to notice more acutely both what is happening internally and in the world around you. There are many health benefits associated with the practice of silence. We recommend this course for people who have some experience and knowledge of meditation.

A DAY OF LOVING KINDNESS:-

An experiential day of meditations and gentle exercises exploring the components of self compassion, namely self kindness versus self judgement, building self worth and recognising our sense of common humanity through mindfulness practices. This is a stand alone day or can be used as a pathway to the 8 week Mindful Self Compassion course.

Mindful Eating 8 week course facilitated by Jean and Alex.

This course is about exploring and allowing yourself to become aware of the nurturing opportunities that are available through food preparation and consumption which respects your own inner wisdom. It is not a weight reduction course, although it can be a side effect.

Mindful eating involves paying full attention to the experience of eating and drinking, both inside and outside the body. We pay attention to the colours, smells, textures, flavours, temperatures, and even the sounds (crunch!) of our food. We pay attention to the experience of the body. Where in the body do we feel hunger? Where do we feel satisfaction? What does half-full feel like, or three quarters full?

We also pay attention to the mind. While avoiding judgment or criticism, we watch when the mind gets distracted, pulling away from full attention to what we are eating or drinking. We watch the impulses that arise after we’ve taken a few sips or bites: to grab a book, to turn on the TV, to call someone on our cell phone, or to do web search on some interesting subject. We notice the impulse and return to just eating.

We notice how eating affects our mood and how our emotions like anxiety influence our eating. Gradually we regain the sense of ease and freedom with eating that we had in childhood. It is our natural birthright.

The old habits of eating and not paying attention are not easy to change. Don’t try to make drastic changes. Lasting change takes time, and is built on many small changes.

Week 1: What is mindfulness: Why and How to apply it to Eating.

Week 2: Slowing down/Pausing and Hunger

Week 3: Fullness and Satisfaction

Week 4: Identifying Conditioned Patterns around Eating

Week 5:  Emotions and Body AWareness

Week 6: Food and Mood

Mindful Retreat Day

Week 7: Craving

Week 8: Working with Heart Hunger.

8 WEEK MINDFUL SELF COMPASSION COURSE

Mindful self-compassion is the foundation of emotional healing—being aware in the present moment when we're struggling with feelings of inadequacy, despair, confusion, and other forms of stress (mindfulness) and responding with kindness and understanding (self-compassion). Mindful self-compassion also means holding difficult emotions—fear, anger, sadness, shame and self-doubt—and ourselves, in loving awareness, leading to greater ease and well-being in our daily lives.

Mindful self-compassion can be learned by anyone. It’s the practice of repeatedly evoking good will toward ourselves especially when we’re suffering—cultivating the same desire that all living beings have to live happily and free from suffering. And as the Dalai Lama says, self-compassion is the first step toward compassion for others.               

What to Expect   In MSC you’ll learn to:

• Practice mindfulness and self-compassion in daily life

• Understand the science of self-compassion

• Handle difficult emotions with greater ease

• Motivate yourself with kindness rather than criticism

• Transform challenging relationships, old and new

• Manage caregiver fatigue

• Practice the art of savoring and self-appreciation

• Teach simple self-compassion skills to others

Course activities include short talks, experiential exercises, meditation, group discussion, and home practices.  MSC is an opportunity to explore how we typically respond when difficulties arise in our lives and to learn tools for becoming a warm and supportive companion to ourselves. Burgeoning research shows that self-compassion is strongly associated with emotional wellbeing, coping with life challenges, lower levels of anxiety and depression, healthy habits such as diet and exercise, and more satisfying personal relationships. It is an inner strength that enables us to be more fully human—to acknowledge our shortcomings, learn from them, and make necessary changes with an attitude of kindness and self-respect.

MSC participants are asked to practice mindfulness and self-compassion at home for up to ½ hour per day during the course.

The MSC course is a journey in self-discovery and self-kindness. Self-compassion has the paradoxical effect of both soothing our emotional distress as well as opening us to the pain that we may have been unconsciously holding inside, often for many years.  Therefore, some difficult emotions are likely to surface during the course as we grow in our capacity to embrace and heal them. 

These notes are taken from the teachings of Kristin Neff and Christopher Germer , founders of Mindful Self Compassion and their websites :-

 www.centerformsc.org/Training      www.mindfulselfcompassion.org/


Mindfulness and Self-Compassion Weekend Retreat.

This weekend retreat is a great way to start the New Year by providing a rare opportunity to take yourself away from your daily setting and really give yourself to being nourished and refreshed in a supported and kindly environment. The retreat offers a blend of guided mindfulness and self-compassion practices which support participants in learning to relate more skillfully and wholeheartedly to their experience - whatever may be going on in life.

Periods of silent practice and times to share reflections with others are woven into the retreat timetable. The spacious weekend format also incorporates opportunities to take advantage of the natural environment, which lends itself to walking and relaxing in the beautiful setting of Charney Manor

REFRESHING YOUR MINDFULNESS MUSCLE DAY

This is an opportunity to revisit both formal and informal practice to strengthen intention and awareness about our moment by moment experience. It is to be loosely planned in order to be able to respond to the needs of the group as they arise in a compassionate and non-judgemental way. We intend to hold the group with a light touch and also incorporate some elements of fun.

SPACE TO WRITE, facilitated by Maggie Reed with Jean and Sonia

Discover your creativity through writing and mindfulness.

To attend this day, no previous knowledge of mindfulness is needed, although it is desirable. There will be a day of informal mindfulness practice to bring awareness to your moment by moment experience, together with a series of fun writing activities. 

You don't need to be a writer, but writers are not excluded! It is not about learning the craft of writing or how to get published, but about discovering aspects of yourself through creativity. Use this time to play with words and not worry about spelling, punctuation or grammer. Expressive writing is personal and emotional, so sharing your writing is entirely optional. The day is about having some fun in a mutually respectful and safe place, without judgement and within a group community. As is our normal way of doing groups, all will be held with a light touch and with great sensitivity.